Make your character high

Dear Friends,

Om shanti.  I know that sometimes you become absorbed in seeing the mistakes of those around you.  It is a weakness to look at anyone else’s weakness.  Sometimes people keep a whole shop in their minds of other people’s weaknesses, which they then distribute everywhere.  The transformation of not seeing anyone’s weakness is now very essential.

At this time we must make the effort to become those with the highest quality of character.  Someone who has a middle level of quality will see both weakness and strength.  One who has the lowest level of quality will see that which is wrong as good and will not even be able to see that which is good.

At this time, make the effort to make your character extremely high and you will only see the goodness and potential of all of those around you.

With love,

BK Janki

Comments  

anjali kumari
# anjali kumari 2014-03-31 06:49
Hm bhut dukhi mar jany ka maan karta mery papa hmko agay padha na hi nh cahty hai kya kary
saloni agrawal
# saloni agrawal 2012-02-18 08:59
thank you dadiji your advice is really converting my thoughts and making my life easy please bless me that i suceed in my journey of life.Om shanti
Amrit  Rajdev
# Amrit Rajdev 2012-02-03 08:22
I m a regular viewer of brahmakumaris.Sistr Shivani realy conveys the message of God in a very excellent way.Many of my ways of interacting with are changed in a positive way.
Moderator
# Moderator 2012-01-25 18:46

OM: Jaisa ki Dadi ne kaha, dusroon ki kamiyan dekhne mein koi faydaa nahin hai. Aap dusroon ki acchaiyoon par dhyaan dein to aaka charitra bhi shaktishali ban jayega.   

jaya
# jaya 2012-01-24 08:05
Dadiji om shanti,i would like to get more knowledge about reallife
akshayaa
# akshayaa 2012-01-19 04:17
iam just twenty and with all my surroundings i was never able to get out of negative feelings!lets beleive god's immense love is with us..!then no matter what;we tend to look at only positive phase of life.its difficult at the start..but god's love is so pure and great that even biggest obstacles becomes a small speck of dust.!beleive that thought!i love u god!
Rohit
# Rohit 2012-01-05 14:03
Thank you dadi and wish you happy new year.
bakula patel(ray)
# bakula patel(ray) 2011-12-30 04:53
om shanti. very true dadiji, will try.
Anuradha Mal
# Anuradha Mal 2011-12-28 14:17
Thank you so much dadi ma! You always show me the write path. You are the answer to all my silent queries.Om Shanti!
KrishnaP
# KrishnaP 2011-12-28 13:50
Om Shanti Dadiji, whatever you reveal that contains the real meaning of truth, "It is a weakness to look at anyone else’s weakness" it is the evidence of that truth.. Om Shanti
Shakti singh meena
# Shakti singh meena 2011-12-28 09:41
param pujyaniy dadi sabki pyari aap ke mukharbind se nikla hua ek-ek shabd bahut prernadayak hai
ritu
# ritu 2011-12-28 03:22
om shanti dadiji its very deepst thing saying by you and very useful to us thank you
tanisha negi
# tanisha negi 2011-12-26 07:28
Om shanti dadi ji and thank u so much....
nikita bachchan
# nikita bachchan 2011-12-25 21:39
om shanti. its a beautiful thought. which is simple and guide u 2 the right path. thank you dadi maa.
TEJENDRA
# TEJENDRA 2011-12-25 20:40

Dadiji, om shanti you said very good thing about the character of human nature.

Sakshi
# Sakshi 2011-12-25 03:03
nice dadiji
Moderator
# Moderator 2011-12-24 12:03

Ankit:  Our inner voice comes from our concience.  It is helpful to have thought through and created a docoment for yourself, however the power to change comes from practice.  A practice of daily meditation which will allow you time to be with yourself in the awareness of the spiritual being that  you are - a soul - and then in that awareness experience the company of God, the Truth so that you can receive the power to make changes on a deep level.  Then when in your daily life and choices have to be made, your inner voice of experience which you have developed in the company of God will be louder and it will be easier to follow.

Paramita
# Paramita 2011-12-21 13:43

Dadiji Om Shanti, The only thing I just want to say is Thank You sooo much for your valuable suggetions & leading our lives in the right way. Through your valuable suggestions & massages I am able to change my thoughts, my views & the way of my Living. Once again Thank You & My Baba

Moderator
# Moderator 2011-12-21 12:58

Rakesh Raj:  It can be chalanging to focus on the qualities of others and not see their weakenesses because it has become our habit to do so. But if our aim is to elevate our own caracter then we have to make spiritual endeavor for this, we have to pay attention to the way we think.  If we pay attention to our thoughts, as soon as we see that we are thinking negatively or focusing on another's weakeness - put a full stop to that thought, and create pure thoughts of love and understanding that will uplift the other, this in turn will uplift the self, because the type of thoughts we have affect us first and build our character.  As we practice this our caracter will change until it becomes natural to see the highest potential in each soul - this is how we transform our world.

Taproot uduma
# Taproot uduma 2011-12-20 21:34
That is truth. To always complain for a weaknes in others, simply exposes of your self weaknes of intolerants.
dinesh
# dinesh 2011-12-20 15:02
nice dadima om shanti
sal
# sal 2011-12-20 04:31
i like the simple wisdom but full of light... its nice to strive towards this direction....
Rakesh Raj
# Rakesh Raj 2011-12-20 03:25
Om shanti,
Yes, this is very true but thing is even knowing this, we are not able to ignoring the mistakes of others or ouerseleves. I request you to give us some guidelines for this.
Nipun
# Nipun 2011-12-19 21:28
Bura jo dekhen main gayo bura naa miya koi,
ajab Bhittar jankyo mujh se Bura naa koi.

Om
Bk.opus
# Bk.opus 2011-12-19 21:09
Man has fallen because man sees evil deeds more often than good deeds. We spot black and that makes us black. So we should also learn to spot the white and the light in others for us to become white and light. Man can rise again when man sees only the good deeds of himself and others. See weakness and be weak, see light or goodness and be a star of light. We are lights (souls), not darkness(body).
Ankit
# Ankit 2011-12-19 19:19
There is a document that I prepared for me to follow- Inner Voice things that I should do as per my Inner voice but often in Real Life or situations, forget the points written in that document and end up doing which Innew voice never wanted. How can I get out of this cycel of going against the Inner voice ? Seems lot of effort, energy and time gets wasted and back to the point from where I started travelling journey of Inner voice
Dimple Kundanani
# Dimple Kundanani 2011-12-19 16:57
I m very glade to get many knowladge about real life.
anita sharma
# anita sharma 2011-12-18 12:05
om shanti dadiji for such an elevated advice & this is because my baba wants me to be very very sweet & HE is keeping an eye on me fortunate.
 OM
# OM 2011-12-16 18:08
Aadarniya DadiMaa,bahut suna hai aap logon ke bare mein.Main aatma ko nahin manta,doctor hoon,isliye lagta hai ki raj yoga ko nahin seekh sakta. Aaj ke vichhar ke baare mein kahna chahta hoon ki main kabhi apne BETTER HALF ki galtiyon ya kadwe shabdon ko yaad nahin rakhta tha.par wo meri kahi gayi chhoti se chhoti baat ko badha chadhakar baad mein yaad dilati hain,use wo samay bhi yaad rahta hai.par aise samay main bahut helpless mahsoos karta hoon ki mujhe unki kharab batein samay ke saath yaad nahin rahti,ki wapas unhe bata sakoon.Kya main bhi unki kharaab batein yaad karna challo kar doon.
ravi kumae
# ravi kumae 2011-12-16 12:18
i do love good character strongly....Becoz in my view if you have good character but you have no money...then i will do love character.
money does't metter..but character is very most important in our life. If you want to love your life then you should good character. God's want purity and Good character.
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