It is important that you never allow your eyes to fall on someone's defect, because that vision does not allow you to see any virtue or specialty. It's important that these eyes learn to see even one virtue. When I see even one virtue it opens up the door to see many virtues. When my eyes see virtues, then there is appreciation.
Make your nature, easy, simple and light, because this is the foundation for harmonising your nature with others with faith and respect.