The enemy of happiness is wasteful thoughts
Dear Friends,

Om shanti.Do you believe it is possible to feel happy and fulfilled
constantly? It is possible, but it requires that you pay attention.The
enemy of happiness is wasteful thoughts.It is essential to stop thinking
about your past and the past of others.It is also important to stop
seeing the defects of others.Even to think about these weaknesses
creates a karmic account and finishes off your internal good feelings.

So, if you stop yourself from thinking wasteful thoughts, what do you
think about instead? The most elevated place to focus your mind is on
God.First, consider yourself to be a soul, a subtle being of light and a
child of God, and then connect your thoughts with God.Let your mind
create a natural relationship with God and you will experience happiness
and fulfillment.As you make this the habit of your mind and heart, you
will find yourself feeling constantly happy.

With love,

Dadi Janki


# Moderator 2014-06-14 16:58

You can only change your self.  Your thoughts lead to actions.  Change your thoughts and actions and your karma will change.

gurcharanjit singh
# gurcharanjit singh 2014-06-12 10:31
ss akal ji
how we believe on karmic we face it.your parents also involved in your k acc.thanks
# gita 2011-08-31 02:23
I have only watched 1 week of the prohramme and applied the techniques in my mind.i feel happier anout myself and notice others respond much more positivley.i. Will continue this simple practice og who I am n my values as this is the seed of my life. I have been through alot recentley and im choosing to live the way I was born happy and shanti
manju chheda
# manju chheda 2011-06-27 08:30

thanks dadiji i am in the meditation field for the past twenty years and still require more enrgy for my growth.

# ssrkraju 2011-06-04 09:34

I know that wastefull thoughts are not healthy.but I am not able to resist or remove them. I need personal advice in this aspect. om shanti

bro. saldy
# bro. saldy 2011-04-16 04:00
this is a very good sense of wisdom, which i continue to persevere to act on, just like any skills is uppose, ti should be practiced daily by oneself with discipline and persistency.... happiness and peace indeed must go hand in hand....
# Rani 2011-04-14 00:56
Om Shanti It is very very true. Most of us live in the past and waste our energy. I have been watching Bramkumaris programme for the last few weeks and can see the changes in myself. I feel so much peace and harmony in my home. I realised how happy I am in myself and I am going to continue reading and work on with my meditation.

Thank you.

# RAKESH JAIN 2011-04-12 09:59

Respected Dadiji thanks very much for a wonderful thought given by you. If everybody read and realised them then this world will become heaven and there will be peace and no wastage of any thing. I have opened this site for the first time and find it strange to read such types of thoughts which give complete peace. Thanks.

sandeep vazrapu
# sandeep vazrapu 2011-04-12 08:08

love u dadi janki. . your messages are being a powerful food for keeping our selves spiritually elevated. . .i thank you in the name of our father. it is our responsibility to keep ourselves elevated in order to reach our father.

# BK ANAND 2011-04-12 07:40

omshanti Dadiji! I will start right now to remember God (Shiv Baba) constantly to get rid from waste thoughts.

cristina brander
# cristina brander 2011-04-12 00:23

Gracias Dadi por la inspiración e intoxicación con que me iluminan tus palabras...

# VP 2011-04-11 22:30
Om Shanti,
I have no control over my negative thoughts. This makes me unhappy and very depressed. Can someone please guide me?
# manisha 2011-04-11 10:52

Om shanti Dadi, its really very true Dadiji your every word inspiring me a lot, wasteful thoughts can never help us in anyway even then we spend most of the time with wasteful thoughts. From today I'll honestly try to feel happy constantly and i will do this practicaly bcoz we read lot of good things , we listen lot of good things but we never do them practicaly. After doing we can feel whats really true.

Wan Ding
# Wan Ding 2011-04-11 04:11
Om Shanti. I'm a regular student at Brahma Kumaris and I'm very new there. I enjoy reading words of wisdom written by seniors. I felt my life had change when I start my learning at Brahma Kumaris. I learn to appreciate myself even more and to put aside all the wasteful thoughts. Letting go is very hard. Most of the time, we do not realise that we are actually accumulating rubbish in ourselves when we get angry at what others do, hating them and complaining about them.We cannot change anyone; we just have to adjust ourselves. I'm happy I came to know God. Om Shanti.
# BANASRI MUDI 2011-04-10 20:56

Om shanti and thank you Dadi Janki for your positive speach,  You are really true.

# anuradha 2011-04-10 20:13

Thanks for this message. Its really true. Thanks for connecting us with God.

# Nara 2011-04-10 05:15
Great tonic for soul. Thank you Dadi for inspiring.
# JABRIL ALAMIN 2011-04-10 00:37

I was very pleased to see that your organization is part of "The Charter for Compasssion". The Hindu tradition is a path which is very beautiful and when applied can help bring, the "Creator of Heaven and Earth Kingdom" to our planet.

poonam kumari
# poonam kumari 2011-04-09 11:03
janki dadi i respect u alot .i try to follow your given thouths but i fail still sorrows r with me
# Soul 2011-04-07 19:16
Melodious :-)
B.K. Chauhan Bhai
# B.K. Chauhan Bhai 2011-04-07 16:45

Om Shanti. Dadi i read your message and i feel it is very true that most of the worries of our life are because of our wasteful thoughts of past and about others.. your guidance has prooved very helpful. thank you. (Solan center)

mala H.
# mala H. 2011-04-07 11:25
om shanti. thanks dadi for this wonderful message. i'll try my best to honour your words. please, bless me.
# mansingh 2011-04-07 09:52
I enjoy reading on this site, it makes me feel a sence of love and well being. may everyone who visit this site, be inspired in some way to live peacefully in this world of ours.
# jumu 2011-04-07 07:30
Thank you Dadi for this beautiful message, with this knowledge you share with us you always show us the way and fill us with determination and positivity to go ahead in life

om shanti
# Piyush 2011-04-06 16:56
Yes, wasteful thought fills us with waste because what we think we do and after doing it again and again it becomes our sanskar (habit).

We should always connect with God (Shiv Baba) in order to purify our thoughts because without connecting with Him, it is not possible to have pure thoughts.

We are like a battery which cannot charge itself and has to connect with energy source which is God.
# Sushil 2011-04-06 06:02
Om Shanti. Thanks a lot Dadiji for sharing these precious thoughts. As you said we need to stop seeing weaknesses of others, which is very difficult to do as our mind is habtual of thinking that way. As I have understood, by considering ourselves to be  a soul and connecting to God helps us to see the qualities of other souls and our connection with God also becomes stronger and we can always remain happy by doing this. Thank you so much..
Kumud Mehrotra
# Kumud Mehrotra 2011-04-05 16:27
Connecting with God is very difficult as wasteful thoughts keep on dwelling in the mind off and on. It is the meditation and or concentration which can empty the mind of obnoxious thoughts and pave way for good and positive thinking
# Maruthi 2011-04-05 12:28
Dear dadi,
Thanks for the sweet message. God has given us the wonderful instrument called mind. This instrument has tremendous power in it. It is left to us about how to use it. Whether to use it for good constructive purpose or not. 
Mind is not your enemy, be always positive then automatically everything around you starts to appear like heaven.
om shanthi..
Saroj Kumar Das
# Saroj Kumar Das 2011-04-05 04:06
This is very true and is giving us right direction to engage our mind and to make
it under our control. This will also give
a positive aura around us, which in turn
always lead us towards the ultimate truth
of life and we will be always be happy.
Thanks Dadiji,
HBS Seth
# HBS Seth 2011-04-04 17:24
It is said: your mind is your biggest enemy!
Yes we should all focus our mind on God to get away from wasteful thoughts, but it is easier said than done! How can this culprit mind can focus on God, who has given us this life? So I enter into great confusion. Maybe there is some way out - I am not aware till now.
# KUNDAN PATEL 2011-04-04 14:47
Thank you so much for the key words such as "wasteful thoughts, stop thinking and weaknesses and the important words such as create Karmic Accounts and connect your thoughts with "GOD". Thank you so much for making me realize this.
papy masamba
# papy masamba 2011-04-03 12:20
thanks dadi it is truth. om shanti
# vandita 2011-04-03 08:53
It is very true. Also 99% of our wasteful thoughts are about the past and future, in our imagination. Most of them are due to false perception and fears and lack of faith in ourself or the goodness in life. And they lead to an unhappy and discontent present. Now there is awareness to recognise wasteful thoughts, its the first step. The next would be to see them for what they are- a waste, garbage.
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