Focus on the changes you want to bring about in the self

Dear friends,

Om shanti.  Now is not the time to think about how others should change. Even Dadi doesn't think about the transformation of others. Ask yourself,  “what do I want to transform about myself?” What new thoughts have you had in relation to your own transformation? Focus on the changes you want to bring about in the self, and then find a simple and easy method to bring about these changes. Apply the changes in your life. Then seeing and sensing your change, others will automatically get the vibration of that. They will then change. The company of such souls who are able to transform themselves, colours others. It's a waste of time to think about reforming others. Just have good wishes and pure feelings inside for them.

With love,

BK Janki

#16 2015-11-26 11:27 - Moderator

Bhavesh Maheshwari:  The mind can be like a wiled horse and so it is necessary to train the mind with love and understanding.  Raj Yoga meditaion is a very good method for this.  It teaches how to make our mind our freind and to have elevated thoughts and pure feelings towards the self and others.  It teaches us how to connect to the Supreme Source of spiritual power so that we have the power to transform.  Over time we have become influenced by negativity and so our thoughts and feelings will be such.  Raj Yoga purifies the mind and allows us to think and feel more positively towards the self and others.

#15 2015-11-24 05:41 - Bhavesh R. Maheshwari
Dear DiDi,
Whenever i goes to mandir or do spiritual practices, negative thoughts disturb me,
pls advice me, how to overcome this.
#14 2015-02-21 03:37 - vandana sheel

Yes, it is a waste of energy to change others, instead indeed fill your thoughts of good feelings for them and then let go. I have found this to be a very useful practice. My viewings of BK Shivani has borne this deep within me. This is so easy once you see the benefit you get from this. Change yourself instead and the world changes around you!!! (Saratoga, California)

#13 2015-02-15 16:47 - mamta saxena

We should focus at out demerrits and try to getrid of it.we can change ourselves.not others.

#12 2015-01-24 19:13 - Tejaswini
Om Shanthi Dadi... Thanks somuchfor such valuable message. Yes, inner transformation leads to outer transformation.
#11 2015-01-09 06:01 - Teeraporn
Om Shanti
It is so hard to transform while you are still in the old world, they look at as us like an intruder sing a different song. only can sit in the silence to absorb the peace and let go. Transformation is hard.
#10 2015-01-01 07:39 - Poonam
Too good. Whenever I read Dadijis message, i feel a sense of peace. Thank you for this wonderful thought
#9 2014-12-22 21:45 - Christina
Thank you for these profoundly helpful thoughts.
#8 2014-12-20 06:20 - janavee
thanks dadi
#7 2014-12-19 11:01 - VIJAY KR.CHOUHAN
Om shanti dadi,

some times I feel irritated to see how other do speak,behave,act & I could not resist me to correct them & preach them & some times that turn me to think lot about the person & situation again & again if person said ok I feel relaxed if no I I feel exhausted.
#6 2014-12-19 00:19 - G Surya Prasad
Dadi OM SHANTI! Valuable Message. Transformation will be effective. My health heart problem continuously made me thinking more. After reading the message,I have got relieved of stress.

Thank you Dadi
#5 2014-12-18 15:44 - aditi
Om shanti dadi.. Nice message... I want to reform myself .. help me... good luck
#4 2014-12-13 03:31 - Shanthi
"It's a waste of time to think to reforming others"? How this can be true? Even you yourself want to "reform" (transforming/enlightening) others by your teaching. How then, it will become waste of time? "We change "ourself"!! How is that possible to change your "self"? Your self is what you are. That "self" must be in connection with the "Supreme Self". Once your "self" is in connection with the "Supreme Self" then everything should be fine. Why need to change your "self"? We do not need to change ourself but only the position of ourself in relation with the Supreme Self. Everyone must change?
#3 2014-12-12 19:17 - Arpit Parekh
Thank you Dadi, Very much. Best post ever.
#2 2014-12-12 19:07 - tripti
Om shanti dadi...I want to be a better person...i have hurt a lot of people.i want to help my self to be dat i can live a peaceful life and not full of regrets
#1 2014-12-09 04:13 - alaknanda
Om Shanti Dadi....this is not just a message but this is the answer of all kind of problems in the world....we always think that its easier to change others and find it very difficult to think about ourselves....and definitely it does not works...and we become frustrated...we ourselves add on our problems...but to change ourselve, to love ourselve, to talk with our own inner self is the easiest exercise to do and top of that it provides immidiate happiness, peace and confidence.....i really wanna follow it i am starting practice it. Dadi please always shower your blessings on us....
with Love
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