Om shanti. Sometimes one of my friends will come to me because someone is doing something wrong and they want me to go and make it right. But sometimes if I take immediate action, if I talk about it, it gets bigger. What we need at that time is to apply a spiritual solution. Sometimes the proper thing is to wait, to become peaceful and silent and to give powerful vibrations. This is what will make things settle.
In our lives we need powers, virtues, and values. When we become aware of the values we need to have, we see the values in others and in ourselves. When you have virtues in your life, your value increases.