Dear friend,
Now is the time when we must develop the highest level of self respect – so high that no one can affect us. Someone may throw a stone, but we must give them a jewel in return.
This week someone asked me, “if someone has a very abusive way of behaving, is there a time when we say, ‘This behavior has to transform,’ or do we just continue to use loving vision?
By this point in my life, I have learned all the methods. This is how I have survived until now and am able to show my face to you. God should see my face and be able to love me. Nobody else’s face should be visible on my face. No one else’s *sanskars should be visible in me. In many people’s minds other people’s faces are roaming around inside them. God shows us His own face. I want my face to look like God’s face – filled with love and with unshakable peace.
Our **drishti must be detached and loving. I must not remember anything from my past, even if someone has made a very big mistake. Some say, it’s easy to forgive, but difficult to forget. But our personality must be so high that we forgive and forget completely, so that even the one who made the mistake does not remember. Our vibrations can travel thousands of miles away.
With love,
BK Janki





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Two times I have shared my problems now very confidently & happily I want to share that positive vibrations worked in my life. My all problems are solved & through meditation I am solving my day to day matters...... Thank u my dear God for being with me.
Sometime some mis-understandings spoils the relations. I have gone through couple of such relations. These are my best friends. I tried to know about mis-understandings in their mind, one of them told me & I tried to explain & requested to clear their heart. But he didn't accept it. 2nd one did not told me mis-understanding in his mind. Though I tried to ask him about it many times he didn't told me any thing. This is 2nd time when I am going through pain of loosing people.They just don't want to talk to me. How to open this lock between relations? please guide me
Om shanti !thanks for guidance! I was bit confused but now I am clear about the concept forgiveness. I want to keep in my mind good moments spend with my beloved ones (my Pitaji who died & my love who left from my life because of parents' rejection); but I want do it without the feeling of hurt. I was not able to proceed with my life because of that hurt & sorrow. So I started meditating with the help of Sister Shivani's program on astha. Now I am completely out of the feeling of hurt & sorrow & I don't dwell in the past while remembering good moments spend with both of them.
I forgot the hurt feel to me because of a act of my dearest one. I always pray for his good life & good being. But dose it mean that I should forget him & good time spend with him & my love towards him? I meditate daily & though i have gone through tough period of my life I feel happy & light through out a day. My life is changed fantastically I think I am on right path but please guide me on the issue.
I have always experienced that its easy to forgive than to forget, over the years i realized that we should forget others mistakes and not the lessons we learnt from that. But, after reading your message i feel that we should forget even the lessons so that we remain neutral without bias and perform our acts with love. I love that message. Thanks Dadi