See goodness in everyone

Dear Friends,

Om shanti.  Each of us has different specialities.  We have to see only the goodness in everyone.  When we interact with others with love and honesty, their virtues naturally emerge.  If there is any ill feeling in my heart, then it will erode my own self-respect.  To make judgments about others is a sign of ego in me. Instead, I should work on my own inner cleanliness and notice whether any weakness remains within me.  If I allow myself to see any weaknesses in another, it will become my own weakness, and then how can I be of service?

Remember that ‘past is past,’ and finish whatever defects and weaknesses still remain within you.  Thoughts of the past should never enter your thoughts, or be used in your words or deeds.  When you look at everyone with love, the present will be good and the future will be even better.  Check yourself, and see the goodness in everyone.

With love,
Dadi Janki


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0 # rishu 2013-03-17 02:51
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0 # Moderator 2012-06-10 13:29

Rekha, Your intention to seek peace and connect to the Lord is worth your time and effort.  For this you do not need to dress in a certain way.  It is good that you ware modest clothes, as you say your intention is not to attract attention but to pay attention to your relationship with God.  It seems that the custom of the temple is to ware traditional clothes, there is no harm in complying with their wishes.  However you did nothing wrong and shouldn't be embarrassed and this will give you an opportunity to draw on the virtue of humility, which can only be good. If you don't feel like going to that temple you could choose another.  Or you could go to a local brahma kumaris center where they teach meditation and you can learn how to have a direct connection to God.  If you sit quitely in silence your heart and mind will tell you what you need to do.

0 # Moderator 2012-05-31 14:33

Kirti kher:  The practice of meditation will help direct the mind in the direction we want it to go.  Having good feelings for the self and others will fill the soul with love. If we practice the method in Dadi's message control of the self will naturally happen, but as with anything, determination is needed. For a deeper understanding of the tecnique we suggest going to a local center to learn the method of meditation.

0 # Moderator 2012-05-23 13:41

All souls in their origional state are pure and good.  There are many reasons why someone is insane or is a murderer.  Almost all of which we will not know.  The Christ soul also said 'Whoever has no sin, cast the first stone'.  It depends what intention our coming in front of that person is.  What will we be bring to the encounter if we hold a vision of their past actions . . . there maybe fear, dislike, hatered.  Will these emotions help us or the other?  It is one thing to be aware and be sensible, but if our vision of the other is negative, what would be the result?  It depends on our intention. 

0 # Moderator 2012-05-23 13:29

Krish:  We cannot force people to do things the way we want them to.  If we get irritated then the irritation lies with us.  The more expectations we have of people the more we will be disapointed if they do not come up to our expectations.  Love is accepting people for who they are, and focusing on their good qualities.  People will only really change if they are inspired by what we do, or how we behave and want to do, or become that for themsleves.  Otherwise they may change for a short while, through fear or convenience, but it will not be real.

0 # sugandhi 2012-05-17 18:25
0 # Krish 2012-05-16 11:12
I will give a simple example of preparing Chapathi's.
I feel and ppl tell that I make good Chapathi.
My mom comes to assist me while making chapathi. She does not do the way I tell her. I have taught her many times but she does not want to learn.

There are several goodness in her. But especially while preparing chapathi I get irritated for 2 reason
1. Chapathi is not coming out well
2. She does not learn at all...

What to do? No teaching is helping?

vangala Ravikumar
0 # vangala Ravikumar 2012-05-11 21:00
dear dadiji, om shanti ! Thank u so much for ur divine blessings and powerful messages. The process of self transformation would be very easy if we follow ur regular messages. We feel energised and gaining lot of confidence and positivity in life. With lots of Love.
0 # Dirk 2012-05-11 16:57
What kind of goodness should I see in someone who is clearly insane, or a convicted murderer? And is it wise to not let any thoughts of the past enter your mind when interacting with such persons? I would certainly want to remember that someone has murdered before I have any contact with them. Is it wrong to remember such things when dealing with such people?

Om Shanti
manel Devendra
0 # manel Devendra 2012-05-11 05:34
Thank you very much for your loving messages & Godly ideas.After reading many of your valuable
messages I have started to be relaxed most of the
time & in different situations, which was not the
case earlier.I continue to take your advices & shanti.
0 # Piyush 2012-05-10 19:58
Om shanti dadi.

Whenever I get frustrated and become unstable then dear Janki dadiji you come in my mind. I think that if you make your mind most stable mind in the world, then I can also do this. By this I become stable.
0 # Danila 2012-05-10 12:53

Om shanti Dadi. Thak you from the deep of my heart. With love

0 # Moderator 2012-05-09 19:44

Saroj:  Does it help others or the situation by focusing on others mistakes or wrong deeds?  If you focus on what it is that they do which is right, then that flow of good wishes will empower and inspire the other to go in that direction.

0 # anba 2012-05-09 14:46

Amma i will help my self and not think or talk about anyone, please bless me.

0 # SAROJ KUMAR DAS 2012-05-08 19:26
Respected Dadiji,Thanks lot for such valuable message. But how it is possible to withdraw attention from the wrong deeds of others and ignorig other's mistakes and how to rectify it by always excusing other's faults. And if somebody is deliberately doing mistakes and hampering us by his wrong deeds , then should we ignore this .
Please guide us, thanks with regds and respect,
0 # Swati 2012-05-08 16:23
pranam dadi...
Dadi this is really nice,i just lv ur messages n voice..
Thanks for ur blessings n guidance..
With lots of love
0 # rekha 2012-05-08 15:09
I have for the past 9 months being visiting a Hindu temple for prayers and peace.Recently i was approahed by 1 of the ladies, who commented that they were not happy with my dress style. I wear trousers and a jumper which cover me from neck to toe, they would prefere i wear traditional clothing. I was embrassed by their comments and do notfeel like going to the temple any more.Part of me misses the prayes and meditation infront of the holy idols. Should i comply with their request or should i not go to the temple.I donot seek relationship with people,i seek peace and the lord our god
0 # rajkumar 2012-05-08 13:41

OM Shanti The Souls with high power of intellect can only forget past deeds and this is only way to keep one self happy and get positive response from opposite person and create harmony in relations and nature.

kirti kher
0 # kirti kher 2012-05-08 06:46

om shanti the technique of cantroling ourself, please provide me.

0 # abhishek 2012-05-07 17:23
i really lik to listen it & always try to apply.. bt y its so diffult..
yogesh deshpande
0 # yogesh deshpande 2012-05-07 12:10
like it
samir ranjan nayak
0 # samir ranjan nayak 2012-05-07 10:36

Nitin Kumar Sharma
0 # Nitin Kumar Sharma 2012-05-05 16:56
This is a inspiring & life changing passage,
for my life this is a medicine.
bk rekha
0 # bk rekha 2012-05-04 15:15
God says ..."sweet child put a fullstop within in a second on the waste" ....and the past is all waste.We are the child of bestower of happiness so it should we our nature to give happiness to everyone ..through our positive thinking ,through our deeds...and by every possible means by which we shanti.
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